After a day apart, the first thing Ben and I ask each other when we get home is “How was your day?” I’ve missed him all day long and can’t wait to be together! I’m sure most of you do the same. But lately we’re learning that’s the wrong question to ask… It’s not often [Read more...]
I get the chance to meet some really special couples in my work as a wedding coordinator. It’s one of my favorite parts of my job. One of those couples, Travis & Carissa, just celebrated their first wedding anniversary, and I would love for you to meet them! What I love about Carissa and Travis is how committed they are to one another and to starting their marriage in the right way.
I asked Carissa to share her thoughts with you about marriage lessons they have learned over this first year. They have some great wisdom for couples in any stage – about seeking counsel, communication, accepting change, [Read more...]
Early this morning, Ben and I had such a sweet time talking – coffee for him, hot tea for me. We were reminiscing, sharing funny thoughts. . . it was one of those great mornings together before we rushed off to start the day. As we were talking, Ben told me I was a good wife. What a wonderfully sweet thing to say.
It should have put a smile on my face to receive such a compliment from him – the only qualified judge of that. But it didn’t. I started to tear up and told him I didn’t believe him. And I really didn’t. I just felt guilty. I told him of all the things around the house I hadn’t finished, the chores I was behind on, the things I hadn’t accomplished, the lack of time I had to focus on doing stuff for him – all qualifying me as a “bad wife.”
Have you ever felt like that? That your success or failure all depends on [Read more...]
Recently, Ben and I have been watching seasons of 19 Kids and Counting. I love that family! They are so different from other families in such a uniquely strange and attractive way. In the way the treat each other, deal with difficult decisions, keep purity as a family goal, and the loving climate of their home, they are a family worth learning from. It’s rare today for families to enjoy each other that much and have parents still in love and committed to each other.
What we have watched from this wonderful family has inspired our marriage and the way we want our home to feel. I think the biggest take-aways deal with the emotional climate and environment of what a home can look like. [Read more...]
Most of us know the sobering statistic that about half of all marriages end in divorce. For many church goers, they also know that the divorce rate is the same outside the church as in the church.
But I came across some research this week that discovered something very different (and really important): those statistics are NOT TRUE. They aren’t the correct, accurate picture of what’s going on in marriage! That’s good news for couples facing [Read more...]